Philemon

Philemon is the shortest letter among Paul's epistles, much like a postcard or aerogram, yet it is also one of the most personal letters he's written. Instead of asserting his apostolic authority, Paul chose to entreat the recipient with diplomacy and tact over a sensitive situation—a runaway slave.

It is obvious that Philemon was a man of high social status and well respected within the Christian community, given his generosity and hospitality towards traveling missionaries and co-workers of the gospels. In fact, he even hosted a church gathering in his house and might have been one of its leaders, if not the one in charge.

This short but instructive letter has a number of important lessons for believers in terms of interpersonal relating:

1. The use of authority is not necessarily suited or a good thing in every controversial or sensitive situation.

1. Showing proper respect and courtesy to whom it is due can be a more amicable approach to resolve differences or problems.

1. The basis for engaging our fellow believers in any issue, great or small, must be love and humility, and always for the good of those affected or involved.

Paul showed by his example how to go about it with Philemon and Onesimus, without his being physically present due to his imprisonment, but through a simple letter that is filled with lots of brotherly love and humility.

Romans 12:10

Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honor preferring one another.

 

OUTLINE OF PHILEMON

1. Paul's Praise of Philemon (v1-7)
a. Greeting (v1-3)
b. Thanksgiving (v4-7)
2. Paul's Plea on behalf of Onesimus (v8-17)
a. The Ground for the Plea (v8-9)
b. The Object of the Plea (v10-14)
c. The Reason for the Plea (v15-16)
d. The Purpose of the Plea (v17)
3. Paul's Pledge to Philemon (v18-20)
a. Extent of the Pledge (v18)
b. Basis of the Pledge (v19-20)
4. Paul's Promise to Philemon (v21-25)
a. Confidence of Philemon's Obedience (v21)
b. Confidence of Release and Visit (v22)
c. Salutations and Benediction (v23-25)